Hamnet And Grief

By Cynthia Sax on June 5, 2026

Spoiler Alert – This post will talk about Hamnet and it WILL contain spoilers. If you haven’t yet watched this heart-wrenching movie based on the book by Maggie O’Farrell about the life of the WIFE of William Shakespeare, you might wish to skip this post.

I recently watched Hamnet and wowsers, I think this is the best movie dealing with grief I’ve ever watched. It is definitely a three hanky watch.

One of the things that makes it so good, so touching is…much of the movie is happy. We see and feel the happiness, the love, the building of hope.

The main character, Anne, Shakespeare’s wife, has a realistic, some might say rather cynical view on life. She doesn’t expect much from life or from other people.

This changes throughout the movie. She begins to hope. She forms connections with other people, with the community. She laughs. She smiles. Joy surrounds her.

Then she experiences a great tragedy and that hard-found hope is yanked away from her.

She is sad, of course. We often talk about the sadness with loss.

But she is also angry, really, really angry. And that is a part of grief also.

As is the feeling of isolation, the feeling we are grieving alone, that the rest of the world has moved on and forgotten yet we haven’t and we don’t ever want to.

The answer to this isolation in the movie is brilliant. That answer and Anne’s reaction to it made me cry even harder than the initial tragedy.

This is a great movie to watch right before writing the dark moment, the big make-the-reader cry moment in your romance novel.

But have some tissues on hand when you do this!

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Romance Readers Know

By Cynthia Sax on December 6, 2025

Romance Readers have been training for moments like these.

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We know that

Love and optimism, hope and happiness

Are precious

And we will have to fight to safeguard them.

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Romance Readers know there will be dark moments,

Times when everything good and kind and constant

Appears to be lost.

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Romance Readers know how to navigate these dark moments.

We know it requires change and caring and courage.

We will have to face our deepest, darkest fears.

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Romance Readers also know this change starts with one person,

With us.

But we won’t be able to do this alone.

We know we will have to ask for help.

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Most of all, Romance Readers know how this story ends.

We know

Love wins.

Always.

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Muse Food – The Struggle

By Cynthia Sax on August 25, 2025

(These gorgeous flowers in Iceland are growing where very few flowers could – amidst bare rock during harsh weather.)

One of the (many) reasons we love romance novels is

because the heroes and heroines (and everyone else) have to FIGHT to secure their romantic happy ever afters.

It’s difficult. There are mistakes, pain, and, in my stories, sometimes decapitations. (grins).

The heroes and heroines have to somehow navigate situations such as the dark moment, where every hope of happiness seems to be lost.

An easy romantic happy ever after is boring. It isn’t believable. It is unsatisfying and a dang short story.

We NEED the struggle.

Give that to your characters.

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