Focus On What We Have
I have switched to a low carb lifestyle (for health reasons). There are a lot of foods I can’t eat anymore.
And that is a bit sad.
But it is less sad when I focus on all the foods I can still eat and the new foods I’ve discovered due to this lifestyle change.
And those foods are plentiful. And delicious. And are sources of great joy.
(smiles)
If you’re also dealing with some changes in your life, try to do the same. Yes, mourn what has been lost. That’s part of being human. But also try to focus on what you have, on the joyous moments that remain.
Happiness is rare and wonderful. Revel in it.
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Morning After The Rain
One of my favorite times is a sunny morning after a thorough overnight rain (a deep water as the Dear Wonderful Hubby and I call it).
There is a burst of green. The blue sky seems bluer. The sun seems brighter. The birds sing. The bees buzz. And the Mafia Squirrels roll around on the wet grass, playing.
It is glorious.
(smiles)
I remember that on dark days. The darkness doesn’t last. Soon, there will be sun and those rays will seem brighter, warmer, because we have experienced the dark.
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Slowing Down
My writing schedule has slowed. Significantly.
And I love this. I can relax more and embrace every word written. I have more time to think about the scene I’ll soon write. I can daydream about the story and devote more time to the small details.
It is glorious.
In today’s world, we’re encouraged to rush, rush, rush. Rush through meals. Rush through the morning shower. Sleep less. Drive faster. Take the shortest routes.
This can be great. Especially if it allows us to spend more time with our loved ones or our dreams.
But slowing down can also be wonderful. Sitting around the table with our loved ones (human, furry or other), enjoying a meal, chatting can be magical. Taking a longer route can be an adventure. A longer shower can be a source of inspiration. Sleep…well…sleep is lovely. (smiles)
It is okay to slow down.
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Compliment Yourself Today
When I’m looking for an easy and quick way to spread joy, I will often compliment a stranger. I will tell a stressed-out young mom that I love her blouse. I will tell a grumpy old guy that he has a great hat. I will tell a cashier at the grocery store that she’s doing an amazing job.
This never fails to make people a little bit happier.
And if it gives other people joy, think of how it will make YOU feel.
Look in the mirror and tell yourself you’re going a good job. You got through the day and that’s truly the only task that matters. Tell yourself you’re strong. Tell yourself you have a beautiful heart. Tell yourself you are loved.
Because you are all of those things. And you deserve to hear that!
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Take A Moment
Take a moment today and just…be.
Breathe in. Breathe out. Listen to the sounds of this wonderful world. Smell the scents in the air. Feel the warmth of the sun’s rays upon your face or the night breeze cool on your skin or the raindrops dancing across your cheeks.
Look at all the details all around you. The blade of grass. The indent in the wall. The tiny creatures. The little things.
And marvel at the wonder of being on this planet, of being alive.
(smiles)
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